Archive for February, 2007

Emotions in Faith

Tuesday, February 27th, 2007

(To read my other posts leading up to this one, go to the side bar and click on The Role of Emotions under Categories.)

When I was a kid, adults in my church used the metaphor of a train to explain faith. Maybe you’ve heard it, too. The engine is what you believe in your head, or the intellectual component of faith. The caboose is the emotional part of faith and a result of correct belief. There was tremendous danger, my teachers told me, if you put the caboose first and allowed your emotions to lead your faith. This danger, in my young and active imagination, was nothing short of total derailment leaving horrific carnage everywhere. And I knew that I wouldn’t be one of those people who jeopardized the train or multiple lives by allowing her emotions to rule the day.

So I went through my childhood, youth, and early adulthood determined to ignore any emotions that stemmed from my faith. I was convinced that I could will myself into a strong and perfectly correct faith. And I did an admirable job. I was the kid every youth leader dreams about – never in trouble, always serious about learning scripture, lapping up the teachings of youth sponsors and camp speakers. With the exception of a year in college when I occasionally attended a charismatic church, I pretty well kept my faith emotions in check until sometime in my thirties. Sure, there were times when I would allow myself to feel incensed about “incorrect” belief or a sense of gratitude toward God, but these emotions were the caboose coupled to the back of the Faith Train powered by the engine of my intellectual beliefs. Even though in adulthood I was capable of expanding my faith metaphors, I continued to allow myself to be held captive by this metaphor of my childhood and believed in intellect at all cost.

The problem with the train metaphor became apparent after many years. I was emotionally stunted and spiritually disconnected from myself. When emotion finally came surging, roaring, and flooding into my spiritual life, I was swept away and no longer knew whether my faith would hold. It seemed that after so many years of denying the emotions that related to my beliefs and questions about God, they flooded me so powerfully that I nearly drowned in them. I thought about ditching my faith because it was simply too much effort and too painful to continue to feel the things related to my faith. But in the end, I grabbed onto a tree root at the edge of the river and managed to get to shore somehow.

It was somewhere in the middle of these surging waters that I began to think that perhaps my ideas about the roles of intellect and emotion in faith had lead me, at least in part, to the swirling chaos I was experiencing. Perhaps the train metaphor had contributed to my inability to understand that emotions are inextricably linked to personhood, and thus, to faith.

The Hebrews of old did not view themselves as body and soul. They believed that they were a unified whole and seemed nearly incapable of thinking of this kind of division as the Greeks did. This is why the psalmists became so emotional when something happened to their bodies or why their bodies were affected when they suffered emotionally from such things as slander. There were no divisions, and the whole of their person was affected by the bad things that happened to them.

I began to think of this wholeness in terms of emotion and intellect – that they were not the separate compartments that I had always believed them to be. Certainly, as someone trained in various theories of counseling and psychology, I knew this to be true on the level of life outside the spiritual. But the more I thought about it, the less it made sense to create a dividing line between emotion and intellect within faith. If cognition encompasses emotion and emotional knowing is a form of knowledge, why would it not also be true for faith? Why should faith be an entirely separate part of me that requires only the use of the intellectual portion of my cognition?

While it is true that emotions can deceive in any situation, it is also true that they help me to know something in a different way than I can with only my intellect. They help me understand what God must feel about me because I understand how I feel about my own children. They help me understand how God wants me to treat others because I know how it feels to be treated as a priceless person and because I know the pain of being treated with scorn and contempt. My emotions are the very thing that caused me to want to follow Christ initially, and they keep me pursuing God even when my intellect discovers questions to which there appear to be no satisfactory answers. It is my emotions that tell me at times that God must indeed be good and powerful with much evidence to the contrary, but it is also true that at times my emotions and intellect reverse roles when it comes to God’s omnipotence and love. Always, it is my emotions that cause me to ask and pursue the answers to questions that produce a more full and mature faith.

But perhaps the most important thing my emotions do for my faith is help me pursue and maintain relationships with God and people in my faith community. Emotions are crucial for relationships, and as I referred to in a previous post (see Emotions in Morality), our desire to do right by others and God is directly dependent upon this emotional attachment. Without emotional attachment, I will not act consistently to nurture these relationships and treat God and others honorably. Similarly, stunted emotions will hinder my intellect and produce a stunted faith.

Now when I think about the way emotions are connected to faith, I think not of a train but of a mini blind. (Not a very romantic illustration, but helpful nonetheless.) The cord that pulls open the blind is not a single cord; it is two or more strands that open the blind evenly. If the cords separate and only one is pulled, the blind comes up on one side at an odd angle while the other side remains down obstructing the view. It only permits a partial vision of things beyond the window. Intellect minus emotion does the same thing. It allows for a faith with only a fractured view. As for me, I have come to appreciate the vista with the blind all the way up.

A Year of Lenten Sacrifice

Friday, February 23rd, 2007

I spent last week before I got the flu trying to decide what I would give up for Lent. I have given up things for the past three years and have found it meaningful – not so much in the period of Lent when I abstained from the thing I had decided to give up but in the wild joy I felt when Easter rolled around, and I knew that the sacrifice was over. (Yes, I do feel passionately about chocolate!) It has been a glorious reminder to me of the joy of the coming kingdom and reconciliation of God.

As I thought about my life since last Lenten season, I couldn’t help but think that I have given up much in my life over the last year. Or rather, much has been taken from me in the past year. Call it an unwilling sacrifice, if you will. The health of my family has been on the rocks, and my own has been continually eaten away by all the annoyances most 70-year-olds experience – except that I’m only 40. I have had dreams of occupation and significance taken away, as well as a future of stability. Heck, I couldn’t even experience the feel of warm sand under my feet last week since I came down with a Herculean form of flu and was too sick to fly. Another tiny jewel wrested out of my hand.

Maybe it seems like a lack of spirituality or faith to not give something up for Lent, but I can’t bring myself to do it this year. I haven’t come to terms yet with what it means to have unwillingly lost these other more important things. Maybe the point of Lent for me this year is to learn how to let go of those things so that some Glad Gettin’-Up Day, I can revel in the glorious return of these things that are not to be right now. Or maybe the point is that sometimes life just sucks, and there’s nothing to do but slog on through. I really hope it’s the former!

The Beatitudes for Midtown Christian Community

Saturday, February 10th, 2007

Blessed are you if you’re cold because you can’t pay your heating bill.
Blessed are you if you frequent food and clothing pantries because your income doesn’t make it through the month.
Blessed are you if you’re forced to rely on other people for transportation because your car has broken down more times than you can count and there is no money to fix it.
Blessed are you when you go without things so that others might be blessed.
Blessed are you who are poor because God helps you see and participate in the life of Jesus more readily than those who believe they have no need.

Blessed are you if you go without meals because there is no money to buy food.
Blessed are you if the food you receive from the food pantry doesn’t stretch far enough to fill the hole in your stomach.
Blessed are you when you look in your cupboards and see only empty shelves.
Blessed are you when you go hungry because you give some of your food to someone else who lacks plenty.
Blessed are you when you’re hungry because God will fill you up with food that you don’t know about.

Blessed are you who have lost children, family, and friends to drugs, violence, and disease.
Blessed are you who have felt the sting of broken relationships with family and friends.
Blessed are you who grieve over loved ones who have followed lifestyles that have ruined their lives and the lives of those around them.
Blessed are you who have been torn apart by the abuse of those that were supposed to be your protectors.
Blessed are you when you cry, weep, and wail because the God of all comfort will turn your tears into the laughter of those who know no pain.

Blessed are you when people do evil things to you because you choose to act in the love of Jesus.
Blessed are you when people give you the cold shoulder because you belong to Christ.
Blessed are you when people lie about you because they can’t handle the truth of your life which reflects the compassion and mercy of God.
Blessed are you when people ruin your reputation because you eat with addicts, prostitutes, and people whose lives are ruined by sin.

Laugh, shout, dance, and jump for joy when these happen because your reward in God’s Kingdom of Reconciliation will be better than you can imagine. These things have happened to those who lived out God’s truth before you. You are not alone. And the time is coming when all of the bad will be turned to good for the glory of God.

Peculiar Aristocratic Titles

Wednesday, February 7th, 2007

I have a new title. Actually, I am still trying to decide upon a title. So far my choices are Reverend Lady Linda the Chimerical of Much Moulding upon Carpet, Reverend Countess Linda the Sonorous of Middle Witchampton, or Marchioness Linda the Arboreal of Lower Beanthrop in the Hedge. I haven’t decided which I will use. Perhaps you can help? Let me know which one you think fits me the best.

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Lord Have Mercy. Glory to God.

Saturday, February 3rd, 2007

Lord have mercy. In preparation for church there are so many things to be done: Women’s Group study to be written, a big pot of Cuban Black Bean Soup and brownies to be made, worship stations to be created and set up. People need my attention regarding community connections: getting a team in the right place at the right time to move Sandy’s possessions into a storage unit until she can find a place to live, finding out if Corinna needs more help with her van, trying to find a ride for Kari and her children to come to church. It is sometimes difficult to cultivate a quiet and receptive heart when the needs of the church and neighborhood loom large. Lord have mercy. Help me not to miss you in the busyness of service.

Glory to God. Peace, and yet stirring, in my heart with the spoken word as it sinks down into the deep places inside me. The excitement of Gideon’s story, the intimacy of the psalm, the testimony of mercy and grace in the epistle, and the miraculous event leading up to Simon’s calling. Lord quicken my heart and mind to understand with all of me what these mean.

Lord have mercy. An older gentleman kneels to write a prayer request for a skin condition and for some victims in Florida. A young adolescent girl carefully writes a request for her aunt who is having a difficult pregnancy.

Glory to God. Children write about and draw pictures to show how you have been merciful to them. Adults pen simple drawings and sketches for ways they have been blessed by you.

Lord have mercy. Corinna did not come and still has no transportation. How can we help? Kari weeps because of her custody hearing this week. Her daughter has been taken from her, and she cannot see how drugs have impaired her ability to mother her children from four different fathers. Patti is struggling to sleep at night a month after her husband died.

Glory to God. Patti, Rebecca, and I pray together as sisters who love and care for each other even though we live in different worlds. We share a meal, laugh together, and talk about the homily of the evening. A bit of the Kingdom here and now.

Lord have mercy. Glory to God. May your kingdom come in fulness here on earth as it is in heaven.